Find your orgasm with a dildo

Dildos are one of the most traditional and widely used and owned sex toys on the market. From rubber to glass, there is something for everyone. Every serious adult toy shop sells them. If you are reading this then you most likely have one too.

From the shallow to the deep, from the outside to the inside.

When you choose a penis to help you find your inner sensuality, you need not worry about taking your time to find it. Try your penis outside your body before you put it inside. You can use it to massage and stimulate your external organs such as the nipples, anus, vulva and labia. You should think of it as teasing yourself and turning yourself into a penetrated person. Once you start using the dildo, you want to make sure you start slowly. Pay attention to how it feels and how different it is compared to using your hand or someone’s penetration.

Don’t skip the warm-up

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Above your g-spot is a urinary sponge containing Skene’s gland. When you’re aroused, the gland expands and fills with fluid, which makes the g-spot more sensitive and prominent, so if you open up, there’s more chance of finding this elusive sweet spot.

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Once you have got used to using your dildo you can start experimenting with different speeds and rhythms. The beauty of the dildo is that it can do what you want so that it doesn’t cause your legs to cramp and you don’t get tired. You can start and stop at any time.

Find different positions

Before you test your dildo it may be helpful to find your g-spot so that you know what you are aiming for.

Sensitive areas vary from person to person and you can try to find stimulation in different locations. Sensitive areas of the body are determined by changes in sensation in the body. Also make a note of this sensitive area so that you can find it quickly in the future.

Try more G-spot stimulation

To maximise stimulation from the g, you need to try different angles, types of movement and pressure levels.

Try a shallow, rhythmic thruster or massage your g-spot by inserting your penis and then dragging it to your g-spot as you pull it out. (It’s best to use a slightly curved dildo and press it against the front wall of your vagina as you put it back inside.

Hard toys made from glass and steel are best for this type of movement as they maintain a constant pressure. Suction cups mean that you can hold the toy on a flat surface and then get into the right position to strike those hot spots.

With the right stimulation you may have the urge to urinate as the bladder is located on the other side of the vaginal wall. Stick to what you have done and you may experience an intense inner orgasm.

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Another elusive erogenous zone

You’ve heard of the g-spot orgasm, but there’s another elusive erogenous zone that has great orgasmic potential. Between the front wall of the vagina and the cervix, anterior iliacis or a point, it’s a few inches deeper than the g-spot.

A sweet spot that is invaluable when you get into internal stimulation, it can unleash unimaginable pleasure, intense sensations and immediate stimulation.

If you want to go this deep, you need a slim dildo and bend it gently so that it slides over the cervix without touching it (which can be uncomfortable for some).

Lube is important.

Yes, we keep talking about it, but it gets repeated. Lubricant is important when playing with sex toys, especially when it comes to penetration. Remember to check that your lubricant is compatible with your sex toy (if you’re not sure check out our guide).

One more thing: don’t get frustrated if it’s not the first time you’ve had an orgasm from this kind of stimulation. Sometimes patience and practice is all you need, but even if you’ve never been there before, there are plenty of other ways to make your biscuits taste good. Everyone is different.

The important thing is to have fun and find out what feels good. If you have an orgasm or two, that’s an added bonus! Nowadays many men choose to buy a physical sex doll to solve their sexual needs, they have big breast sex dolls, mini sex dolls, Japanese sex dolls and more!